the importance of protecting personal space

people love to fuck with street performers. living statues are seen as particularly easy targets, because it is assumed that a living statue can’t move no matter what happens. as i’ve said countless times over the years, i firmly believe that protecting myself is significantly more important than holding a pose, and i am completely baffled by anyone who thinks otherwise.

i read a story, ages ago, about a female living statue and a drunk man. it was a pretty typical scene of jackassery. he’s making lewd comments, inching closer, gaining bravery with every second that passes. soon enough, he was all over her, grabbing her, flat out sexually assaulting her. she held her pose. eventually he wandered away, and her audience was impressed that she never reacted to anything he did to her. i read this story, and i wanted to track her down and slap her. why would you do that? why would you allow anyone, intoxicated or not, to treat you that way? i am not impressed.

if you give people an inch, they will eventually take a hundred miles. there’s a performance artist, marina abramovic, who is mentioned often when wyatt and i have conversations about my busking and the bullshit i have to deal with from my audience. here’s why:

To test the limits of the relationship between performer and audience, Abramović developed one of her most challenging (and best-known) performances. She assigned a passive role to herself, with the public being the force which would act on her.

Abramović had placed upon a table 72 objects that people were allowed to use (a sign informed them) in any way that they chose. Some of these were objects that could give pleasure, while others could be wielded to inflict pain, or to harm her. Among them were a rose, a feather, honey, a whip, scissors, a scalpel, a gun and a single bullet. For six hours the artist allowed the audience members to manipulate her body and actions.

Initially, members of the audience reacted with caution and modesty, but as time passed (and the artist remained impassive) people began to act more aggressively. As Abramović described it later:

“What I learned was that… if you leave it up to the audience, they can kill you.” … “I felt really violated: they cut up my clothes, stuck rose thorns in my stomach, one person aimed the gun at my head, and another took it away. It created an aggressive atmosphere. After exactly 6 hours, as planned, I stood up and started walking toward the audience. Everyone ran away, to escape an actual confrontation.”

now, obviously, her performance was very different than mine. but i do think the basics of humanity are exactly the same. people will test you. that is a fact of performance art. and if you do nothing, they’ll keep going, they’ll want to know exactly how much they can get away with. that’s why i don’t let people get away with poking, grabbing, slapping, or crowding me. i know that if i let people get away with seemingly harmless actions [that certainly wouldn’t be considered harmless under normal day-to-day circumstances], inevitably i will find myself in a much more serious situation. it’s fucking absurd for anyone to expect me to tolerate invasions of my personal space just because i have chosen to perform on the street as a living statue.


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One response to “the importance of protecting personal space

  • CW

    What you describe is sadly deep rooted in some people and when you mix in alcohol, all bets are off as to the stupidity people will demonstrate.

    Sitting in even our own homes we have “boundary” issue with people trespassing or feeling they can just walk up to our door and try to sell us something (not as bad as it used to be) bypassing the No Solicitation or No Trespassing Signs even if they are clearly posted. Our homes are supposed to be our place of solitude. Yet telemarketing invades our homes regardless of do not call lists etc.

    I am not involved in the arts, yet I have an amazing respect for those that have been blessed with such gifts and talents. As a result my inner moral compass leads me to respect a performer and count my blessings that they are willing to share their gifts with others.

    With your art and gift of Busting / Street Performing, you are stepping out of any comfort / safe zone and putting it all on the line. It is a shame that a few people have to test the limits of Common sense to possibly impress their friends or try to become the center of attention at your expense. It is petty, childish, and shows a common lack of respect on their part.

    I have watched a number of the videos you have posted (never seen a live performance) and it was very nice to know that most if not all of the time you do have someone in the crowd watching over you. You also have shown you can and will take care of yourself when the situation warrants it.

    For the few rodents that act life fools, know that there are 100s of people that you have literally stopped in their tracks if only for a moment to gaze in wonder at your performances.

    Life has people that will try to bring you down for who knows what reason, but always remember there are many more that will lift you up if needed. Look past the “jerks” and see smiles and silent stares you create in those that value what you are “sharing” with them, not what the few senseless people will try to take from you.


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